tguinter

Omg I can relate to what your going through to a point but with my gram. 11 year battle to breast cancer and we were very close spent almost everyday with her until the end. I am so sorry for you and your moms painful time but like u said cherish everyday you have and I will pray for you both that you can get through this the best way possible.


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Zeus050412

I just want to say.. thank you.. everyones kind words are so uplifting.. the truth.. i know life will go on.. it will get better... life has to go on.. i wish i could pause time, however,i am not too sure if i would have enough strength to hit the play button again.. my mother is the strongest most kind hearted woman i know. she would give the shirt off her back to a stranger, even if it was her last shirt. She is a lover of animals and many of my characteristics are just like her.

I appreciate everyones kind words, and i am glad i can express my self on this forum to complete strangers without the fear of judgmement. I tend to hold a lot in because i do not want people to feel sorry for me... i try not to cry in front of others.. my friends always say i try and play the "tough guy", and I am in fact not BATMAN. (i say batman, cause he is waaay better than superman. lol. biast.) I truly have my moments when i am alone. it is just so hard to fathom that i am in fact loosing my mom.

I guess i was too confident that something like this would never happen to my family. and here we are. everyone and their kind words has given me some more strength. . . i truly appreciate the kindness you have shown.

thank you again.

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Jill T.

So sorry you are going through all of this.
I haven't lost a parent, yet but my husband and I lost our first son at 7 months of age. Losing someone you love is the WORST! I'll be praying for peace & comfort for you & your family. (((Hugs)))

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GeorgieGirl

I am so sorry to read what you are going through!! I can totally relate!! I lost my mother April 20th of 2011. She was diagnosed with cancer. It was too late for any treatment (though I refused to accept this). i made her an appointment at Sloan Kettering in NYC. Unfortunately, she didn't make it to her appointment. She passed away just 3 1/2 weeks after diagnosis! she was my very best friend! I miss her terribly every single day!! But I've taken comfort in knowing she is no longer suffering... I'll be honest and say it hasn't gotten much easier, but hopefully in time it will... i hope you have a good support system of friends and family!! They are what get me through the tough times!!!

And of course my Georgie!! Ironically I got her the day before the one year anniversary of losing my mom... It was meant to be that I have her! And she makes me smile every single day!!

Sorry for rambling! But your message really touched me... i don't know you personally, but my heart aches for you!! Feel free to PM me if you ever need to vent...




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Zeus050412

Thank you all for the kind words. I do not like to ask people. especially strangers, however, I am in a bit a of a bind. having to "make arrangements" at 23 is quite overwhelming. I mean my mommy is stil very much alive, although she is not has healthy as she was a month ago. I feel guilty even talking about cremation, or where the ashes are gonna go.. its just soo much.

I have started a Chipin to help me and my brothers with the expenses of cremation. *no pressure* I do not like asking people for help.. but I guess you can say I am desperate.. im sorry I have to ask..

ChipIn: Cremation Expenses

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