I miss my little girl sooooo much! 7 mo. does the pain over go away? I haven't had a perm. job. & I cant afford to get another boxer. My heart is BROKE! I cant stand it & don't know what to do.? I really needed to vent & cry my eye's out today! I am so freaked sad! I try to remb. good things and time's but I just cry & get sad! I still have her bed, blanket, & pillow next to me & sleep w/blanket.....l cant stand it!
I feel for you. A long time ago I lost my dog that I had had for 10 years...since he was a puppy. I found some comfort thinking that he had a good life and remembering the good times...but it is hard...and took a really long time. Honestly I think i will always be sad when i think of him. I was not ready for another dog for a looong time but i ended up getting a cat...very different...but she is a sweetheart and is still with me today.
I'm so sorry for yout loss. I know the feeling so very well myself. Although its been a little over 3 years since I lost my beloved Gouda, and the pain is still there, it does lessen over time. It took me 2 years before I could actually seal her cremains in her urn. What helped me a lot was I bought a small locket made specifically for a small amount of cremains and I wear it faithfully. I only take it off to shower and then its right back on. It makes me feel close to her and it truly has helped me. There is a Facebook group(its closed you have to request to join) called Angel Paws. Its for people grieving the loss of their pet. I'm not sure if that will help you but it is an option. I am lucky Gouda visits me every now and again, much to the chagrin of Kippah I think! I hope you find peace and know you will see your pup again, she will be the first to greet you when it's your time, along with all your other pets throughout your lifetime. Hugs to you and know you are not alone
And yes, the pain does fade with time. It's hard to think in the midst of grief, but an option you might want to consider is "fostering" a Boxer in need?? It would be a way to honor your girl and could help you to cope better with the loss of your girl.
And yes, the pain does fade with time. It's hard to think in the midst of grief, but an option you might want to consider is "fostering" a Boxer in need?? It would be a way to honor your girl and could help you to cope better with the loss of your girl.
My plan is to foster but I live in MA & the laws here could cause a problem ( I currently volnt. for a boxer rescue & have for 7 yrs....fingers crossed...ty
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