After a sleepless night I brought Miss Delila in to be neutered this morning. I cried my eyes out when it was time to leave her. The vet called me 3x during the day, when she went into the OR, 1/2 way through and when she woke up. Shw is home and sleeping most of the night, Ekim was very gentle with her, but he went on an overnight trip to my sons house so Delila can rest tomorrow. Shw hasn't wanted to eat or drink, but she is peeing and pooping. I am so happy this day is over. I took the next few days off of work and I am glad because I feel like I am coming down with a bad cold. Now Delila and I can both stay in bed tomorrow. I want to thank you for your kind words of concern, it helps to have such good friends.