Well, we took Brodi to see his vet and also met with a behaviorist while we were there. We explained all his issues he was having and she told us putting him on meds was going to be her last resort. She sat with us for awhile explaining all of our options and gave us homework before we left which was to completely puppy proof our house because she wanted us to try leaving him for 10 mins alone with full run of our home. The thought of leaving a 12 week old puppy with full run of the house made me freak but she reassured me that as long as the house was puppy proof he would be okay and that he could cause more harm to himself being in a crate and flipping out as bad as he does. She believes Brodi has more of a really bad fear of being barricaded in to a certain spot. I am happy to say we puppy proofed the house and shut all the doors to the bedrooms and bathrooms and left him and Chloe alone for 10 mins with their kongs and he didn't have any issues! no barking..crying..vomiting, drooling..nothing!! I have left them alone for an hour in the morning yesterday and today and everything is still going fine. The behaviorist informed me that he does not have SA cause if he did he would still of had issues with us leaving because the symptoms of SA start more or less as soon as they are left alone. I am still having issues and fears with leaving him alone while he is so small but I keep reminding myself he could harm himself more being confined into a room or crate. Just wanted to let you all know how he was doing and wanted to thank you all for being there for me!